逍遥右脑 2019-03-02 17:29
No Complaint, No Maturation
In a restaurant, I met him.
He was grumbling continuously ever since he sat down, complaining hiscompany for little salary after eternally hard working; the unjust of his linemanager who merely promote the one ingratiate him with he; the unkind ofcolleagues for ganging up with and beating someone while
pretending to be wellwith Finally, I caught the moment he stopped and enquired him cautiously: sinceyou are so unhappy with your work, why not changing ? he stupefied with aglance to me seemingly an alien “跳槽?Where should I go? You know that the economy isin the boom.” I have got it. Actually, his job was not so terrible.
After the dinner, he said good-bye to me heartily and left me
histelephone specially. However, I have never connected him ever. For me, it isout of consideration to make a friend with 一个怒气冲天的人.
It reminds me 阿瑟?阿什, a well-know tennisplayer in America. He happened to catch the AIDS when he got a bloodtransfusion. A pile of his fans showed their sympathy and blamed the unjustGod. While 阿瑟?阿什 declared: “I get adeadly cancer, but a would not complain the God and myself because I know thatsomething we can not run away. I have no choice but to face when the daycomes.”
Genius! In his words, there is calmness, magnanimous, open-minded, aswell as the demeanors of a mature man. Unfortunately, we complaint everythingwhen we have to face the difficulty and setbacks in reality:
we alwayscomplaining that the God is unfair; the crucial fate, the grim human beingsItis worth doing if his dissatisfaction go away, depression disappear, feelingsbecome motivational after complaint. But, the problem is, as a mass of shabbyand cool fog, the complaint is so misleading that confuses his mind and thendrops him deeper and deeper in the muddy.
Life is like a journey, from ignorant to mature. And I believe thattruly mature is start from no complaint.
翻译：成熟，从不抱怨开始
遇见他，是在一个饭局上。
一落座，他就喋喋不休地抱怨起来：怨公司不好，拼死拼活一个月，拿到手里的工资没多少;怨上司不公，谁擅长拍马就重用谁;怨同事不善，成天勾心斗角明争暗夺终于，在他暂停抱怨的间隙，我小心翼翼地问了一句：既然工作如此不称心，为什么不跳槽呢?他一愣，奇怪地看了我一眼，似乎在看一个外星人。 “跳槽?现在经济这么不景气，往哪里跳?”一这下我算明白了，原来他的工作并非一无是处啊。
散席后。尽管他热情地与我道别，并且特意留下他的电话，但我，却再未联系过他。对我来说，一个怨气冲天的人，是不值得交往的。
不由得想起阿瑟?阿什。这位美国著名的网球名将，在一次输血时感染了艾滋病。对于他的遭遇，许多球迷深表同情，且因此责怪老天对他太不公平。对此，阿瑟?阿什说道：“知今，我身患绝症，我不怨天，也不怪自己;因为我知道有些事人无法左右，当不幸来临时，我们只能面对。”
说得多么好!在这段话里，我们看到了从容，看到了平静，看到了坦荡，看到了豁达，看到了一位成熟男人的风范。然而遗憾的是，在现实生活中，面对困难和挫折，我们听得最多的，还是抱怨：怨苍天不公，怨命运残酷，怨人情冷酷如果说一个人抱怨之后，他的不满与郁闷能够随风而去，心境能够变得开朗起来，那他的抱怨还算是有价值的。可问题在于，抱怨恰如一股阴冷潮湿的黑雾，足以遮蔽他的眼光迷惑他的心智，最终让佑在自怨自艾的泥潭里越陷越深。
人生就是一段旅程，是一段从青涩走向成熟的旅程。而我相信，真正的成熟，是从不抱怨开始的。