逍遥右脑 2015-02-17 16:01
如何在涉世之初少走弯路，有一个好的开端，开始一番成功的事业？以下是一些先行者积累的10条有益的涉世忠告。好好地遵循、把握这些忠告和建议吧，比起所学的课堂课程来，它毫不逊色！
1.买个闹钟，以便按时叫醒你。
自贪睡和不守时，都将成为你工作和事业上的绊脚石，任何时候都一样。不仅要学会准时，更要学会提前。就如你坐车去某地，沿途的风景很美，你忍不住下车看一看，后来虽然你还是赶到了某地，却不是准时到达。“闹钟”只是一种简单的标志和提示，真正灵活、实用的时间，掌握在每个人的心中。
2.如果你不喜欢现在的工作，要么辞职不干，要么就闭嘴不言。
初出茅庐，往往眼高手低，心高气傲，大事做不了，小事不愿做。不要养成挑三拣四的习惯。不要雨天烦打伞，不带伞又怕淋雨，处处表现出不满的情绪。记住，不做则已，要做就要做好。
3.每个人都有孤独的时候。
要学会忍受孤独，这样才会成熟起来。年轻人嘻嘻哈哈、打打闹闹惯了，到了一个陌生的环境，面对形形色色的人和事，一下子不知所措起来，有时连一个可以倾心说话的地方也没有。这时，千万别浮躁，学会静心，学会忍受孤独。在孤独中思考，在思考中成熟，在成熟中升华。不要因为寂寞而乱了方寸，而去做无聊无益的事情，白白浪费了宝贵的时间。
4.走运时要做好倒霉的准备。
有一天，一只狐狸走到一个葡萄园外，看见里面水灵灵的葡萄垂涎欲滴。可是外面有栅栏挡着，无法进去。于是它一狠心绝食三日，减肥之后，终于钻进葡萄园内饱餐一顿。当它心满意足地想离开葡萄园时，发觉自己吃得太饱，怎么也钻不出栅栏了。相信任何人都不愿做这样的狐狸。退路同样重要。饱带干粮，晴带雨伞，点滴积累，水到渠成。有的东西今天似乎一文不值，但有朝一日也许就会身价百倍。
5.不要像玻璃那样脆弱。
有的人眼睛总盯着自己，所以长不高看不远；总是喜欢怨天尤人，也使别人无比厌烦。没有苦中苦，哪来甜中甜？不要像玻璃那样脆弱，而应像水晶一样透明，太阳一样辉煌，腊梅一样坚强。既然睁开眼睛享受风的清凉，就不要埋怨风中细小的沙粒。
6.管住自己的嘴巴。
不要谈论自己，更不要议论别人。谈论自己往往会自大虚伪，在名不副实中失去自己。议论别人往往陷入鸡毛蒜皮的是非口舌中纠缠不清。每天下班后和你的那些同事朋友喝酒聊天可不是件好事，因为，这中间往往会把议论同事、朋友当做话题。背后议论人总是不好的，尤其是议论别人的短处，这些会降低你的人格。
7.机会从不会“失掉”，你失掉了，自有别人会得到。
不要凡事在天，守株待兔，更不要寄希望于“机会”。机会只不过是相对于充分准备而又善于创造机会的人而言的。也许，你正为失去一个机会而懊悔、埋怨的时候，机会正被你对面那个同样的“倒霉鬼”给抓住了。没有机会，就要创造机会，有了机会，就要巧妙地抓住。
8.若电话老是不响，你该打出去。
很多时候，电话会给你带来意想不到的收获，它不是花瓶，仅仅成为一种摆设。交了新朋友，别忘了老朋友，朋友多了路好走。交际的一大诀窍就是主动。好的人缘好的口碑，往往助你的事业更上一个台阶。
9.千万不要因为自己已经到了结婚年龄而草率结婚。
想结婚，就要找一个能和你心心相印、相辅相携的伴侣。不要因为放纵和游戏而恋爱，不要因为恋爱而影响工作和事业,反义词，更不要因一桩草率而失败的婚姻而使人生受阻。感情用事往往会因小失大。
10.写出你一生要做的事情，把单子放在皮夹里，经常拿出来看。
人生要有目标，要有计划，要有提醒，要有紧迫感。一个又一个小目标串起来，就成了你一生的大目标。生活富足了，环境改善了，不要忘了皮夹里那张看似薄薄的单子。
！！！看过之后感觉好的话，回个贴顶一下让更多的人有所收益。早日成功。
How
to
avoid
making
detour
when
a
good
beginning,
began
a
successful
career?
Below
are
some
accumulated
by
forthgoers.
To
follow,
grasp
these
pieces
of
advice
and
suggestion,
what
you've
learnt
in
class,
no
less!
Buy
an
alarm
clock
to
wake
you
up
on
time.
From
sleep
and
unpunctual
habit
will
become
your
job
and
career
of
stumbling
blocks,
any
time.
Learn
not
only
to
time,
more
should
learn
in
advance.
As
you
ride
to
go
somewhere
along
the
way,
the
scenery
is
very
beautiful,
you
can
get
a
look,
although
you
finally
get
the
destination.
The
alarm
clock
is
a
simple
signs
and
hints
of
flexible,
practical,
real
time,
master
in
everyone's
heart.
2
if
you
don't
like
it,
either
to
resign
or
shut
up.
New
business,
often,
arrogant,
small
things,
do
not
wish
do.
Don't
get
into
the
habit
of
choice.
Don't
bother
to
open
an
umbrella,
not
rain,
rain
and
umbrella
demonstrated
dissatisfaction.
Remember,
don't
do
whatever
is
ready
to
do.
3.
Everyone
is
lonely.
Learn
to
tolerate
loneliness,
this
will
mature.
Young
giggly,
accustomed
to
beat,
an
unfamiliar
environment,
with
all
kinds
of
people
and
things
at
once,
and
sometimes
even
one
can
go
where
no
talking.
Now,
don't
be
impetuous,
learn
to
tolerate
loneliness,
meditation.
In
solitude,
thinking
of
mature,
in
the
mature
sublimation.
Don't
because
of
loneliness
and
lost,
and
to
do
nothing,
boring
wasted
time.
4.
When
ready
to
bad
luck.
One
day,
a
fox
came
to
a
vineyard,
see
inside
of
grape
drool.
But
outside
a
fence
kept,
cannot
enter.
So
it
is
a
cruel,
after
three
days,
the
weight
fast
into
the
vine
at
a
big
meal.
When
it
wants
to
leave
contentedly
vineyards
and
found
myself
to
eat
too
full,
how
also
drill
out
fence.
Believe
that
anyone
would
not
do
such
a
fox.
Retreat
are
equally
important.
Filled
with
food,
sunny,
umbrella,
ripe.
Some
things
seem
worthless,
but
today
may
be
one
hundred.
5
don't
like
glass
so
fragile.
Some
people
always
stare
at
his
eyes,
so
far
not
figure,
Always
like
to
complain,
and
makes
others
extremely
tired.
No,
in
which
to
sweet
sweet?
Don't
be
so
frail
as
glass,
crystal
clear,
like
be
like
the
sun,
as
strong
winter
sweets.
Now
open
your
eyes
enjoy
the
cool
wind,
don't
blame
the
tiny
sand.
6
clique's
mouth.
Don't
talk
about
yourself,
don't
even
talk
to
others.
Talking
about
his
arrogance
often
undeserved
hypocrisy,
lose
themselves
in.
People
often
talk
into
petty
is
tangled
up
in
the
breath.
Everyday
after
work
and
your
colleagues
chat
friend
who
drink
is
good,
because
this
often
talk
among
colleagues,
friends,
as
the
topic.
Behind
the
person
always
bad,
especially
among
the
stones,
these
will
reduce
your
personality.
7.
Opportunities
are
never
lost
",
"you
lost,
others
will
get.
Not
everything
in
heaven,
Coca
Cola,
more
do
not
hope
"opportunity".
Opportunity
is
only
relative
to
the
preparation
and
be
good
at
creating
opportunities.
Maybe
you
are
losing
a
chance
to
feel
remorse,
blame,
chances
are
you
the
same
"unlucky"
to
catch.
No
chance,
will
create
opportunities,
a
chance
to
catch,
skillfully.
8
if
phone
rang,
you
should
not
always
play
out.
Many
times,
will
bring
you
the
unexpected
harvest,
it
is
a
kind
of
decoration.
Made
new
friends,
don't
forget
your
old
friends
road
is
easy.
A
secret
is
active
communication.
Good
popularity
and
praise
will
help
your
career
to
the
next
level.
9
don't
because
they
have
to
marry
the
age
and
hasty
marriage.
Want
to
get
married,
you
can
find
a
heart
with
you
and
your
partner.
Don't
regard
love
as
game,
not
because
of
love,
don't
work
and
career
for
a
curt
and
frustrated
marrige.
Emotions
tend
to
keep
the
tail
from
wagging
the
dog.
10.
Write
your
life
to
do
things,
put
it
in
your
wallet
and
check
it
frequently.
Life
is
to
have
a
great
aim,
and
must
have
the
plan,
remind
and
urgency.
Littile
golas
joined
together,
become
the
target
of
your
life.
Life
rich,
environmental
improvement,
don't
forget
the
wallet
thin
slip.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
After
feeling
good,
have
a
stick
to
props
to
let
more
people
returns.
Early
success.